P2: My side of story - E-Day at Sungkai

As-salam

Oke, part 2 pulak ye? Hehe. Nampak sangat bosan kan? The next day, Nadia bawa aku dan Mak Su berjalan-jalan ke Kolam Air Panas Sungkai. Memang cantik! Nadia cakap dulu air lagi panas, sebelum tempat ni dibuka ke public. Kiranya sebelum dikomersialkan la. Harga masuk ke dalam kolam ni RM12.00 per person ya? Tapi, nasib ada Nadia. Dapat 50% OFF! sebab I.C alamat Sg. Kelah. Kiranya, orang tempatan dekat kawasan pusat rekreasi ni dapat specialty la sikit. Weeee!! 

Aku memang highly recommed tempat ni untuk family gathering or untuk bersantai dengan kawan-kawan. Ada kawasan 'private jakuzi' yang boleh disewa khas untuk mereka-mereka yang gemarkan privacy.

Enjoy pictures, ya? ^ ^

Nadia dan Mak Su 

Perhiasan je kot air panas bertingkat ni? HAHA

Berendam sat lepas penat bekerja. Kolam air panas

Tengok je orang rebus telur

Kolam air sejuk

Kolam air sejuk - kawasan dalam

HAHA macam baru kenal je kan? Poyo sikit.
(YAYA, MAK SU, NADIA)

Ke tempat parking naik train je.

Best duduk Sungkai! Macam-macam ragam depan mata. Aku niat ke Sungkai lebih awal dari tarikh majlis pun untuk tolong-tolong buat apa yang patut. Kerja dengan opah-opah ni memang best! Ada yang melatah, gosip-gosip, sindir-sindir... memang benda biasa la tu. Tapi, bila depa berkias-kias tu yang lawak. HAHA. Kiranya, suasana kerja tu seronok la. Tak stress kerja walaupun kerja memang banyak. Tok pun jenis tak cerewet, so aku kerja jadi ikhals dan seronok.

Nadia bawa aku dan Mak Su berjalan-jalan ke Pekan Sungkai. Pergi pasar pagi je, beli bahan-bahan mentah untuk masak tengahari tu dan rasa nasi lemak Sungkai yang sedap! Woohoo! Sempat rembat pallazo kelabu sehelai. Cap pasar pagi pun jadi la. Janji murah dan sedap pakai. Nadia dan adik dia, Ijat gemar makan bakar-bakar ni. So, menu bakar la today. Daging dan ikan bakar. Memang tradisional. Batu-bata jadi para dapur. Aku tukang tengok je la. Tak mahu ganggu air tangan tukang masak. HEHE. Makan pula lepas berendam, memang lahap sikit! HOHO.

What I learnt there? 

Orang kampung memang friendly! Aku suka suasana kat situ. Pergi mana-mana je kenal semua orang, bertegur sapa, salam-salam. Nampak bahagia sangat! Macam ni baru betul hidup bermasyarakat! Aku tak rasa hidup macam ni sebab hidup pun pindah-randah. Duduk dalam kem pun jiran sentiasa silih ganti. So, bounds between neighbors kurang la sikit. Pindah Laguna pun jiran majmuk yang golongan muda semuanya. Masing-masing sibuk dengan kerja. Jiran belakang rumah pun kami tak kenal. Hmmm... rasa macam looser sangat! Aku tak adalah proud born as a bandar people. Tapi, tidak lah rasa menyesal. Semuanya ada pro dan kontra. Cuma, dalam situasi aku yang makan gaji sebagai cikgu ni kena pandai hidup bermasyarakat dan kena pandai bawa diri. Itu sangat perlu. Boleh jatuh hukum wajib pandai bawa diri la.

Sesetengah orang mungkin anggap hidup di kampung ni tak bebas. Pergi sana sini semua orang kenal. Buat jahat sikit, satu kampung tahu. Kiranya, gosip cepat tersebar la. Hmm.. sebenarnya, di mana-mana pun sama saja. Yang penting, kita kena pandai bawa diri, jaga tingkah laku dan air muka sendiri dan keluarga. Bandar dan kampung pun lebih kurang sudah. Kalau dulu kampung sinonim dengan agenda 'asap-mengasap', 'tiup sana-sini'. Sekarang ni, orang bandar pun sama juga. Macam aku cakap tadi, ada pro dan kontra. Tapi, kalau tanya aku, aku prefer duduk kampung kot? Tapi bukan really kampung la. Macam small moving town gitu. Outskirt. 

Kalau berkesempatan, nak ke Sungkai lagi. Tok dah janji nak bawa berkelah kat air terjun pula. Tok nak masak bekal untuk bawa ke sana. HEHE. Happy happy happy! In Sha Allah. Doa semoga umur tok panjang. Seronok kalau tok aku macam ni. Tradisional aje. Tak kisah pun rumah selerak ke apa. Best!  Harapnya, kalau umur aku panjang, aku pun boleh jadi tok macam tok Nadia ni. Adore sangat!

Kita tak tahu rahsia Allah S.W.T, apa perancangannya terhadap kita. Kadang-kadang kita merungut bila ditariknya sesuatu nikmat, tapi sebenarnya itu adalah yang terbaik buat kita. Allah S.W.T have bigger plan for us, so have faith. Kalau kita terus beranggapan begini, In Sha Allah semua urusan akan menjadi mudah.

In Sha Allah :)

P1: My side of story - E-DAY at Sungkai

As-salam

Baru hari ni ada kudrat nak online bagai. Baru balik dari Sungkai sempena bestiz E-Day on 1 Disember 2012. Best! Tumpang happy untuk dia ^ ^ Since aku bukan facebook punya orang, so most of pictures aku upload sini aje ye untuk gambar-gambar belakang tabir. More private though! 

30 Dis - Aku menapak ke stesen bas SP untuk ke Sungkai. Aku tahu Sungkai memang jauh. Sikit lagi nak sampai KL, but aku memang have no clue kena naik bas lompat 1 jam+. But seriously, tak kisah langsung. Sangat berbaloi dengan kenangan dan pengalaman yang aku dapat. Niat di hati memang nak pergi awal untuk tolong buat persiapan semua since aku tak sponsor apa pun untuk E-Day Cik Nadia ni. Last minute baru minta kebenaran mama untuk ke Sungkai. Overall, alhamdulillah semuanya berjalan dengan selamat dan lancar. Majlis pun sederhana sahaja. Tuan badan pun cuma jemput teman rapat, jiran tetangga dan kaum keluarga terdekat. Rasa terharu tuan badan jemput juga kita ni. Seriously, sangat terharu! Sebab tu sampai sanggup redah kilometer, naik tukar bas bagai. 

Plus, kesian kat tuan badan sebab kurang tenaga pekerja nak kemas-kemas rumah, hias sikit-sikit and simpan pinggan mangkuk nanti. Ada pun kederat orang tua pangkat opah-opah yang tolong kenduri ni. Kesian, so stay lama sikit la. Mama pun okay je. Walaupun mama tak pernah jumpa Nadia, tapi I can tell that she likes her. Boleh kot declare anak angkat? Hehe. In Sha Allah :) Mama regular customer Nadia. Mama suka beli collagen powder dari Nadia. Berkesan! Dah banyak botol mama beli kat Nadia. Complexion mama pun nampak la cerah sikit. Mama tanya kenapa kau tak jual je collagen powder tu? Aku boleh je nak jual, cuma tak mahu la block rezeki orang. Plus, if beli dari Nadia, boleh tambah $$ dia untuk kenduri. This is my way of helping her. So, let it be this way. Banyak lagi cabang rezeki yang ada. Cuma nak dengan tak nak aje.

Enjoy gambar-gambar ni ya? Gambar balik tabir aje ^ ^

Rombongan pihak lelaki

Bincang2 bakal besan

Acara sarung cincin. Debaran si dara. Auuww!

Macam retis la pulak ^ ^

Rombongan beransur pulang

Orang kuat dapur (4 dari kiri: OPAH MUN sporting!)

Dah jadi tunangan orang.. TAHNIAH!

Ambil berkat lagi. Ameen!

Banyak lagi gambar sebenarnya, cuma malas nak upload. Hehe. Lepas majlis tunang, mula la kerja-kerja kemas rumah. Dah rasa macam duduk dengan family sendiri. Tok Nadia memang sangat thumbs up! Tak reti duduk diam. Aku baru nak masuk tidur pukul 3.00 am lepas tengok Runnig Man, tok bangun untuk kemas rumah. Haiisshh! Malu betul! 

Tok Nadia request nak rasa air tangan orang SP. Tok minta aku masak makan tengahari keesokan harinya. Masak ringkas saja, cuma kacang panjang goreng. HAHA. Nasib la minta nak rasa kacang panjang aje. Kalau tidak, kantoi jugak la bukan orang dapur. Ngee!

Opah Mun, dalam gambar tadi berkenan agaknya dengan aku. Sibuk mencari siapa saudara-mara dia terdekat unutk dijodohkan dengan aku. Katanya, "Sayang sungguh opah dah tak ada anak teruna". Ayyo! Nasib la opah tak ada anak teruna, kalau tidak, makan pasir la jawabnya opah oii.. !! Opah Mun tertipu agaknya dengan penampilan aku yang berkain batik sentiasa. Hehe. Tapi kan, orang tua ni, sekilas ikan di air dah tahu jantan betina nya. Opah Mun memang tahu yang aku tak cekap buat kerja dapur. Kantoi suda masa sama-sama basuh ayam sehari sebelum kenduri hari tu. Dia cepat gilees bersih ayam, aku duk terkedek-kedek lagi buang lemaknya. Adoooiii opah!

Setekat sini sahaja la dulu, oke? Ada lagi sambungannya. Macam buat refleksi la pulak! Hehe. Ada pengajaran dan post-mortem nya. Hehe. Sebenarnya, apa yang penting ialah dari aspek afektif (perasaan). Itu yang nak aku highlight kan sepanjang 3 hari berkampung di Sungkai.

too-dle, ya? ^ ^

Atas nama BFF, mesti pergi ^ ^

As-salam

Selalu orang pilih Facebook, or Twitter nak luahkan perasaan kan? Tapi, aku sangat2 prefer Blog dari those things 'cause banyak boleh hurai with much less people know about this. Oh, sangat2 super excited bila BFF sorang ni dah nak bertunang! Auuww! ^ ^ Alhamdulillah! Super excited sampai tak sabar gile tunggu esok nak beli tiket bas and tudung nak match dengan baju kurung baru! I don't care if now tengah sengkek pun, BFF punya pasal, apa pun boleh. Yes, since dah tak ada kawan baik ni, of course la super free!

Memang Allah S.W.T nak panjangkan jodoh dengan previous BFF. Boleh pula terserempak dekat RNR Bukit Gantang masa on the way balik dari KL. Agak terkejut sampai tak tahu nak responds macam mana. But then, no heart feeling. We adults, move on instead of cry like a baby. Masing-masing cari life sendiri. It seems like she can't find her way out just yet. Tak habis protes lagi. Luckily, I manage to escape from the craziness. Pray for her too. I really miss my old BFF, honestly.

Dah tak mau episod duka-duka dalam diary aku for awhile. Cukup sudah makan hati, oke? Masa berjimba pulak. Tak sabar sangat nak pi shoping esok. Hopefully still ada duit untuk dihabiskan esok! Aaauuuuw! Just, I wish Hubby boleh ada sama. Hehe tapi macam mustahil aje. Nak tidur rumah anak dara, mana boleh bawa hubby? HAHA.

Aku sembang hati-ke-hati dengan mama tadi, nyatakan betul2 hasrat aku nak attend Majlis Tunang BFF baru tu. Aku cakap, BFF personally invite aku ke majlis dia. And aku sangat pasang angan-angan nak turut serta dalam majlis dia. Aku cakap, "Tirah mana ada BFF lagi ma? Tu sorang je buat masa ni. BFF lama dah tutup buku dah, kot?". Entah! Aku pun tak tahu sama ada BFF lama masih anggap aku ni BFF dia atau tidak. Pedulikan! So, mama terus agreed! Best giler! Rasa macam nak terlepas stering kereta masa tu. Aku terus taip mesej nak hantar ke BFF, tapi mama pukul tangan. "Drive la dulu!", marah mama.

Ah, tak kisah la nak kena naik bas banyak kali pun. Aku tak nampak benda ni sebagai burden sebab aku willingly nak join majlis dia. So, semuanya nampak mudah dan tak memenatkan di mata aku. Memang betul la orang cakap, 'bila ikhlas, semua jadi mudah!'.

HAHA. Happy happy happy! TQ ALLAH for sending her to me!

Tak tahu tuan punya badan izinkan atau tidak upload gambar tunang nanti ^ ^ HEHE!

A part time job.

As-salam =)

A school holiday means, I really have to stay home - not encourgaed to get a job. But, since my youngest sister is now already i school, so mother decided to not let her plays so much. She asked me to do a home tuition for her, so that we won't forget or at least be ready to be in standard two. 

HOME TUTOR

Shasha and I, we decide on the schedule just now. She agrees to study more. I set her leisure time, when she's going to eat, time for bath and time to sleep. Amazingly, she agrees with all the terms and conditions I applied. Yes, easier for me too! I told her that even we are on the vacation, she will have to study that I'll bring her all her books along with us on vacation. Hah! Cruelty much! Yet, for her own good too. 

Kids these days are so brilliant that they have to struggle more and harder than us, if the really want to succeed. Am I right? But, to be honest, I really don;t want to push her too much that I'm scared she might be lost interest in studying later. I believe kids deserve to have fun, or she might not have something fun to talk about later. I believe that intelligent have to stay in line with the personalities, moral values and socialism. Or, she might be facing a big trouble later. Trust me! She would not dare to enter the society since she don't know how to mix around. And, that's important. 

TEACHING SHASHA TO RECITE IQRA' - Tq Mr.Google.

And, not to forget to teach little one Quran and Jawi. Ummah's strength. I noticed that people these days are take 'born Muslim' for granted. Like, if you were born Muslim, then you knew everything about Islam already. So wrong! We all got some unsaid things to ourself, even I did. How I wish I had learnt Quran, Akhlak, Ibadah, Feqah, Sirah, Jawi, etc harder when I was a kid. I take this for grated. How I wish for this to change. How I wish I have children now so that I'll teach them harder about Islam. 

I wish.

Apart of that, I am actually a MS Words's teacher - part time. HAHA. How about that? I am teaching dear mother about how to use MS Words. I find it too expansive for a short and basic MS Words, cost about RM50 for 16 hours lesson, offered by the GSC company. Don't you? Let's be smart about doing business on school holiday, okay? Let's do something that might get our pocket thick. HAHA cruelty much! 

Money money money! I love money! ^ ^

Aku dah sedar diri. Terima kasih.

As-salam

Alahai, sejak bila entri BM ni? HAHA. BI leceh sikit nak karang-marang. Sekarang mood 'kasi tibai' je, janji ada entri. HAHA. Aku tulis aje banyak 'HAHA', tapi hati ni tak ada siapa yang tahu. Dah berbulan-bulan berlalu sejak peristiwa tu. Aku still tunggu penjelasan dari dia tentang, Kenapa boleh jadi macam tu?, Apa yang dah berlaku?, Kenapa korang break?, dll, tapi hampa hampas teh sangat! Aku berharap, terus terang la aku cakap. Tapi sekarang ni, aku dah sedar diri. Aku dah berhenti berharap, betul. Sebab, aku sendiri dah tak tahu banyak benda tentang kau. Cara pembawakan diri kau pun dah nampak beza, like I don't know you anymore, so, that's it!

We are not more than just a childhood friend. Fullstop.

We used to be A-Z!

But now, it's just like this one. 

Masing-masing dah besar and matang, so we lead our own path. Still, no heart feeling, sebabnya manusia datang dan pergi. If this turns to be like this, then so obvious that you no longer need me in your life. Fine by me.

I have something to tell you, deary.

"I have always cherish the moments of us together. You're in my world ever since I am just an ugly fat kid. You've been in all my ups and downs. Thank you for that. I think you knew me enough. Just, not well enough. We did made time for that, but we didn't bought enough times, though. Now the time had passed, we've been too far from each other that I can clearly see there's no turning back, so be it. Thank you to prove I am right, that you are not more than just my childhood best friend. No heart feeling. I can live up with all the good memories of us. Until death do us apart. Thanks."

Terima kasih. 

No room for prejudice.

As-salam =)

(This is what I wrote. Something about friendship 6 JAN 2012)

Sometimes, I wonder, did I know what's the meaning combinations of letter F, R, I, E, N and D? It pronouns as FRIEND, refer to somebody; anybody in life that be there for you most of times, or one at a time.

I have always ending my year or my semester with forgiving people and forgetting bad memories. Sometimes I forgot and slipping the good memories too. As years passed, I became more mature in the way I think and look at things, yet still need some adjustments on certain stages.

Year 2012, is one good year for me to restart of what I’ve been missing for one passed month; friendship. We so busy hating and talking bad about each other’s (sometimes, especially when peak hours). We blame one another, show sour faces, have prejudices, etc. I forgot about how close we were back then. Did you remember about how strong we stood, backing each other up on that night of orientation? It was lovely. And that’s what we’ve been missing throughout these years.

Fiza, Jenab, Mimosa and me, we went to Info Centre this late afternoon to online. We had this really great laugh. There is no room for hate and prejudices. Just us, FRIENDSHIP.

=)

I think I miss you guys more than ever. 

Me and Jenab at Raya 2009

OK, so childish! And even look like one (back at 2009)

One of my happy moment; be with my CHENTA and  BESTIZE

Where I wish things could stay

Cherish the moment together 

Back to a moment when there is only 'immaturity'

My sweet Zoela :)

Only us <3

Everybody keeps writing about New Year

As-salam =)

It is officially 2012 now. And, seems like bloggers take this for granted to write about typical 'New Year resolutions', 'new hope', 'aims' and 'ambitions', like yawn! Are you really going to strive for that? Only about 20% people strove hard for it. Another 80% left without saying (not even realizing it at all - including me). Haha. What about that? I must say, the 80% are just being normal, for being easy to live a life; live life with no pressure. 

I didn't really thought about resolutions. I have none to be specific. I just hope for the best, always. I pray to My God, Allah S.W.T for one better life, give me times to serve the parents, the family and all the people around me; to enlighten their days, provide them hopes and hands to hold on to. Insya-Allah. It's part of the job as a teacher.    

2012 - Also will be a big year to my elder sister, FARHAH MARHAINI as she soon to be a wife to a man she knew for years, IMRAN IBRAHIM. Although the weeding is not yet to come, but bride is as busy as ever. Haha. 

2012 - Is also one of my big year as I soon will start my practicum here at schools. I really nervous about facing these youngsters and really don't have the idea on how to communicate with the teachers. You see, I have these inferior complex deep inside myself. I am too afraid to not give people on what they need. I am too afraid to make mistakes now, even did I knew that ones learn from mistakes they made. 

YayaQiestina as a teacher :p

Other than that big days, it is not totally decided. Allah S.W.T plan is not yet to come. So, praying for the best in life. 

Insya-Allah =)

An Afternoon tutti fruti frutti

As-salam =)

My sisters and I, we spent the entire late afternoon enjoying the quite-a-cost ice-cream in cups. Strawberry-choc and Kiwi-yogurt ice-cream. Nyum! nyum! Honestly, it is a MUST TRY and perfect for teen hangout, or couple, perhaps? 

Nice place, though! I must suggest to open one in Mengkuang, Bkt. Mertajam. 

Most important thing, we had so much fun! It's my sibling precious time! And the parents, Babah and Mama, accidently met us there (or, aren't they? hmm.. are they spying on us?). haha. Lawak pulak nak spy segala! haha. Ingat ni zaman remaja ke apa?

She's so excited thinking about what-a-cost ice cream!

Nyum! nyum! Raya day-4 at Frutti Frutti

Sisters afternoon out

It's so important to spend quality time now... 'cause thing might be changed in a nick of time. Everybody's getting busy, been out studying. All left are just moments. As for Farhah, this might be her last year to be in touch as she might be a bit 'busy' with a new life. Myself, in two years time, I'll be out teaching in a place not-near-home, which I also don't know. Same goes to Wawa, as in two years, she'll finish her high school and go somewhere else. Sarah, she'll spend most of her four years Civil Engineering at Batu Pahat. 

So,

We can only hangs on to memories, the best moments of sisterhood and family.

LOVE THE FAMILY!