Hostel OR, Rumah sewa?

As-salam =)

This coming semester will be the most challenging semester of all. I, for some reason got kick-off the hostel. Hehe, not kick-off, silly. Just, it's a tradition for seniors semester 6 to be 'kick-off'. Plus, with all the silly rules, it's better if we had our butt moved. But, everything has it pros and contrasts, right? So, since today is a not-doing-anything-day, I decided to list it all. 

Here are the Pros of staying in the Hostel.

1. Safer
2. Cheaper
3. More privacy
4. Easy to go to class
5. No transportation needed
6. Lots of friend

And, here are the Pros of staying at the Rumah Sewa.

1. Rules free
2. Free to do own things

(I can only list two things here!)

Okay, I am about to go to the contrast now. Start off with, Contrast of staying in the Hostel.

1. Doesn't have the chance to go overnight (Hard to do so!)
2. Have to go with the rules
3. A warden to be taken care of (Silly!) 

Contrast of staying at the Rumah Sewa

1. High tendency of fighting and the sour-face
2. Have to consider others - housemate and roommate
3. Not so safe
4. Not enough money to pay the rent for the next coming month
5. Expanses of the transportation increases
6. Have to wake up early to go to class
7. Less privacy

It is obvious now that staying in the Hostel has so much to offer, rather than the Rumah sewa. My personal opinion regarding the matter, 

"Staying outside will teach us a lot of thing about life. It is to know a person a little deeper than ever. And, staying out really mean, you have to be much more considered about a lot of things, including the privacy part. Learn to give than to take".

Kenapa nak single?

As-salam =)

Today's topic on Manisnya Madu is very interesting. Well, actually it was not my intention to watch the program, but the mother insisted me to go online to have a look. She wanted to copy the Surah given by Ustazah Siti Nor Bahiyah about finding the soul mate. Later, I'll share the Surah, okay? 

There is a caller, aged 19. He called to ask the panel about 'Why parents does not want the kids to have an early marriage?'. The answer is very simple, 'Are you ready to get married?' and 'How ready are you'?. By ready, it really means, TRULY READY!

1. FINANCIALLY

2. EMOTIONALLY

3. EDUCATIONALLY  

  

HOW READY ARE YOU?

Here is the Surah, shared by Ustazah Siti Nor Bahiyah on the TV just now.

1. Surah Yusof, Ayat 4 - Amalan selepas solat 5 waktu
2. Surah Al-Qausar, Ayat 24 - Untuk hajat dan permintaan
3. Surah Yunus, Ayat 81 - Elak sihir yang menghalang jodoh

For more information, kindly login to www.tonton.com.my and search for TV9 to re-watch the talk on 'Kenapa nak single' at Manisnya Madu.

Where is my Ted, Barney and Robin?

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The sisters always urging me to catch up with them in the TV series they have been watching. I for some reason hate to do so because I could just stuck, like so bad. But, there are series I've been stuck with these days - Walking Dead (WD) & How I Met Your Mother (HIMYM).

HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER

HIMYM is about a friendship of five people, start off as a friend and long couple since collage between Marshal and Lily, be friend with Ted Mosby, happened to be roomate. Then, the career start and Ted bumps on this stranger, Barney Stinson at a bar while having his heart break. Barney taught him abut how to be cool and kicks girl when he saw this TV Personality, Robin Sherbatszky. So, it's kind of went out from there until the day Ted found the mother for his children.

But, in this case, neither I nor Fendi plays the role of Ted Mosby. I look myself to more like Lily, while Fendi play more to Marshal Ericson (they seem alike too - gaining weight and double chin). No sweat, okay dear? Hehe. But in our life, there is no Ted, Barney and Robin. We are actually alone. I found a certain someone who could play the role of playboy Barney, but happened to not fit the role of 'I will always be there' Barney, OR, 'I am your friend' Barney. It is just, 'I am only going to be there when things are good' Barney. Sucks!

For Robin, maybe my best friend could go with the character, but the thing is, I don't know if I still have one. Technically, we are falling apart. And it's just for how things had changed these days. So, no Robin just yet. 

Ted Mosby, it's just hard to find one. I have not found my Robin, so technically, still no sign for Ted.

Something about their friendship that caught my attention. Robin has been dating with Ted and also Barney, yet still managed to sit around and have fun, even so personal feeling might jump over one or two. And still, being the best friend. I can hardly gather five of my friend to sit along and having fun. But, the fact is, I don't have that number of friends. Most tend to be plastic when it comes to reality. It is just me and Fendi. And yes, we do have some couples to go out with, but most of them don't last long and some were married, and some prefer to stay low. It's just hard to look for one.

I've always been admire girl-best-friend. I don't know how they could just sit and be best friend in a large group of best friend. I tent to get jealous when it comes to friendship that I wish the friend could just not being picky in placing her 'ALL TIME FAVORITE'. Instead of just that, why don't she treats all to just fair and square? Better, isn't it?

TO THE AWESOMENESS OF A FRIENDSHIP

LILY IN REALITY

ALYSON HANNIGAN

I wish to find my Ted, Barney and Robin as soon as possible. 

To the not so casual atmosphere anymore, come a comfort.

As-salam

I am actually having a break from my study towards my exam tomorrow. Was thinking, the atmosphere here just not so pleasant and casual anymore. The oxygen kind of leaking of something. Turns out, I could not breath in peace. Maybe it is just me. Just, I don't know. I give it a lot of thought that things may not be as it used to these passed few years. New environment, some new change of life. I don't know if I have the right guts to face it. 

I noticed how tough my life gets. I mean, to the busy schedule of no more fooling around, with no people to hold on to - except for few same people. Others keep on giving craps to me, like so. Plus, maybe a new best friend since one get away. But, it all seem like not enough to help me through the day. I am just scare of everything. 

Towards one major change of life, I had prepared nothing just yet. I had my head straight for the exam (sort of straight, I don't know!). Maybe I will have everything figured out later, once I am home, having all the people I love around me, and have a talk to them about this. 

But, few days back, I have this one real conversation with this friend of mine. Amazingly, I can really have like a heart-to-heart talk with her with all the pleasantness and sincerity around - it a her. And, I am glad that I did have the talk. It sort of ease the heart a bit. And, really can't wait for the next move. 

Apa erti sahabat?

As-salam

Aku tak tahu sama ada aku makin poyo, sibuk nak kejar dunia dewasa sampai tegar tinggalkan kegilaan dunia remaja secara total, atau dia sendiri yang dah berubah. Aku sibuk canangkan pada dunia tentang dia, dan aku tahu dia pun canangkan perkara yang sama. Cuma, berapa rapat aku kenal dia? Dan sejauh mana pula dia kenal aku? Itu yang menjadi persoalan sekarang.

Boleh dikatakan aku tak tahu menahu langsung apa yang terjadi dengan hidup dia. Memang kadang-kadang aku atau dia akan mesej tanya khabar, tengah buat apa, bila balik, tapi semua tu hanya berhenti setakat itu sahaja. Sedih, kan? Kawan baik cuma hanya di mulut sahaja.

Bila dapar khabar tentang dia, aku betul-betul terkejut. "Apa dah jadi?", aku tanya. Dia cuma balas, "Nanti aku dah balik aku mesej kau, okay? Aku tengah bersosial ni". Aku terkejut juga dengan jawapan tu, cuma aku gagahkan hati, sedapkan hati sendiri. Jam dah pukul 12.00 kot? Masih di luar?

Aku memang kenal dia sebegitu, cumanya aku ingat zaman foya-foya kami dah lama tamat. Tapi, rasanya tidak! Entah! Aku jadi tak tahu nak cakap macam mana. Betul la cakap orang, "Makin kita kenal seseorang tu, makin kita nak menjauhi dia".

Terbukti benar.

Tapi, aku tak akan sekali-kali tinggalkan dia. Aku cuma sedih dan sedikit kecewa. Itu sahaja.